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25 Best Sex Toys For Women Who’ve Never Bought Adult Toys Before

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Are you new to the world of adult toys? If the thought of purchasing a vibrator or other device designed for pleasuring yourself makes you blush, this article is for you. We’ve rounded up the best sex toys for women who are just beginning to explore the options out there, and who might not be completely comfortable yet with the idea of using a sex toy.

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Health Benefits of Using Adult Toys

While vibrators and other adult toys might not make for polite dinner conversation, there’s no reason to be embarrassed or ashamed of using them. Our bodies are made to feel pleasure, and besides feeling great, orgasms have an array of health benefits! Apart from their cosmetic bonuses (they’re great for your skin), they’ve been shown to boost immunity. They also make for a great workout, increasing your heart rate and exercising the whole body, including the pelvic floor.

So whether you’re new to sex toys and not sure where to start, or already have a drawerful and want to try something new, we’ve got you covered. Below are 30 of the best, most effective gadgets to give you guaranteed orgasms, plus one great lubricant for vaginal dryness that works with them all. Some can be used alone, while other are great sex toys for couples. Either way, they’ll get you to where you want to go. (And not to worry — these products will be shipped to you in discreet packaging, so your postal worker and neighbors will be none the wiser.) Keep scrolling for FIRST for Women’s picks for the best sex toys for women.

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25 Best Sex Toys for Women

Lelo Mia 2

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Amazon
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Buy from Lelo, $63.40 (was $84.90)

Why we like it:

  • Lipstick-shape for discretion
  • USB chargeable
  • Shape targets the clitoris for quick, intense orgasms

This global best-seller is the the most quintessential incognito bullet vibrator. With eight pleasure settings and whisper-quiet vibrations, it can go anywhere (and get you anywhere) you need to go. The lipstick case is purse-friendly, allowing you to be completely discreet with your sexual adventures.

Happy customer: “I fully enjoy the Mia 2! The simple design is unobtrusive, and comfortable for me. It has brought a new level of enjoyment when I brought my husband in to use it on me. The multiple modes and power levels helps when it comes into dialing in for the strongest orgasm I’ve ever had using a toy. My husband enjoys using it on me when we play together.”

Lelo Soraya 2

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Lelo
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Buy from Lelo, $175 (originally $219)

Why we like it:

  • Most popular with our readers
  • 12 pleasure settings
  • Whisper quiet and discreet

If you’ve never tried a sex toy before, you might feel a little daunted by some of the more intimidating-looking options out there. The Lelo Soraya 2, however, is here to reassure you (and nix any subconscious stigmas you might be carrying around). Smooth, flexible, and easy to use, it’s got 12 pleasure settings and dual stimulation that combines power and precision, making it one of the most luxurious vibrators you’ll find. It also comes with a satin pouch for discreet storage, free discreet shipping, and a 1-year warranty. Perfect for partner play as well as solo pleasure, this is a great way to open the door to a whole new world of possibilities.

Happy customer: “This is my first vibrator and it’s honestly AMAZING! The fact that this is dual action, with 12 settings (12 adjustable settings!), is silent, and can be used in water, is absolutely perfect. I would highly recommend!”

Lelo Gigi 2

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Buy from Lelo, $111 (originally $139)

Why we like it:

  • 8 pleasure settings
  • Sculpted for ultimate g-spot stimulation
  • Whisper quiet

If you’re new to the world of adult toys, this global best-seller is the perfect sex toy for beginners. Its classic shape hits all the right spots, and the multiple settings allow you to gently ease into the vibrations until you find the setting that’s right for you.

Happy customer: “I bought GG a month ago and it was really out of my expectation. The design is great, very light and delicate. To be honest, I had never found my G point before I got it. But this helped me find that and I have never had this pleasure before. Would recommend.”

Lelo Soraya Wave

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Buy from Lelo, $199 (was $249)

Why we like it:

  • Softer, smoother, and more flexible than ever
  • 8 pleasure settings
  • Whisper quiet and discreet

This rabbit-style massager is the top-of-the-line, best-of-the-best, and promises a full-body experience that will leave you deeply satisfied and shivering with pleasure. With both G-spot and clitoral stimulation, a pulsating tip, and Lelo’s patented “Wave Motion” technology, this might be the only toy you’ll ever need. It’s on the pricier side compared to other sex toys, but reviewers say it’s worth the splurge.

Happy customer: “The power of the toy and its “move here” motion make it a real women-pleaser. Beautiful design combined with quality manufacturing make it a beauty that gives a lot of pleasure.”

Luna Rechargeable Personal Wand Massager

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Buy from Amazon, $29.99 (originally $39.95)

Why we like it:

  • 2+ hours of battery life
  • 20 patterns and 8 speeds
  • Amazon best-seller

With more than 7,000 five-star reviews on Amazon, this Luna vibrator wand is not only a fan-favorite, it’s affordable, too. With eight speeds and 20 patterns to choose from, you can have a different pleasure adventure every time you use it.

Happy customer: “I absolutely LOVE this product, (and so does my boyfriend for any men interested :)… It can be super light or super intense. I love love love that the entire product is waterproof **and the buttons don’t protrude out.** It’s the perfect toy for internal and external use and has become our most used toy in the bed. The battery life is better than some of the more expensive toys on the market. We have enjoyed playing with the endless amount of settings multiple times a day for weeks and we are still finding new ways to play with this single toy. I recommend this to anyone and everyone reading this!”

Lelo SONA 2 Cruise

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Lelo
20% off!

Buy from Lelo, $79 (was $99)

Why we like it:

  • Global bestseller
  • 12 pleasure settings
  • Extra soft silicone

Be prepared to have your mind totally blown by Lelo’s multi-award-winning SONA 2 Cruise. Its unique “SenSonic” technology gives off a series of pleasurable sonic waves before it ever even makes direct contact with your body. Its cruise-control setting provides constant pulsations, which increase when the device is pressed against your body. Better yet, the company offers free discreet shipping, a one-year warranty, and a 10-year quality guarantee, making the SONA 2 a solid investment in your sexual health. 

Happy customer: “I mean it’s amazingggg. Does the trick within a couple minutes. I like all the different settings that you can go from and the fact that you can change the intensity of it. No need for a man with Lelo (lol).”

Lelo Ora 3

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Buy from Lelo, $136 (originally $169)

Why we like it:

  • Rotating tongue simulator
  • Faster and firmer movements than other models
  • Wide range of vibration intensities

This clever sex toy simulates oral sex for women with a tongue-like nub that rotates and vibrates for your ultimate pleasure. The PreMotion Technology provides different variations of strength and speed to gradually but blissfully bring you to climax.

Happy customer: “I really enjoy the climax I get from using this toy — it always hits the spot which I can’t say for all toys. Just thinking about it makes me want to bust it out and have some fun!”

Lelo Sila

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Buy from Lelo, $135 (originally $169)

Why we like it:

  • Award-winning sex toy
  • Large mouth for indirect contact of sensitive areas
  • Gentle vibrations

This brand new clitoral vibrator from Lelo is already winning awards for its innovative design. The wide mouth allows you to gently tease your most sensitive areas without over-stimulation. With eight ultra-quiet vibration settings and extra-soft silicone, this will be your new favorite sex toy. And because it’s waterproof, you can take it in the bath or shower for a new adventure.

Happy customer: “I have no words. I’ve never felt anything near that level of excitement, nor had that many orgasms in a row. It leaves me breathless in the best way. Definitely keep the lube nearby. It keeps everything wet and juicy. Take the time to find the right placement on your body. You won’t be disappointed. I had been looking at this item for too long! So glad I took the plunge.”

Lelo Smart Wand 2

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Buy from Lelo, $159 (was $199)

Why we like it:

  • Wide range of vibrating intensities
  • Made with extra soft silicone
  • Long-lasting charge

This wand vibrator can be used solo or with your partner — and even on your partner! Made with 100 percent waterproof, butter-soft silicone, it can be used anywhere on your body (even sore muscles!). With a wide range of vibrating settings, you can have a completely different explosive experience every time you pull it out of the drawer.

Happy customer: “Bought this for us to enjoy together and my wife loves it! We have used it four times and she has had internal orgasms every time in less than 15 minutes. Internal orgasms are very rare for her. The last time we put it between us during intercourse and came together.

Adorime High-Frequency Vibrator

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Amazon

Buy from Amazon, $19.99

Why we like it:

  • 10 pleasure modes
  • USB rechargeable
  • Portable size

You don’t have to spend a lot to get a lot, and if you’re on a budget, Adorime’s high-frequency vibrator is just the ticket. It comes with two interchangeable soft silicone heads and 10 toe-curling vibration modes. Users report that it really gets the job done, with one writing, “I’m honestly a bit speechless… There are so many vibration settings, and they are all insane! I recommend this toy 10,000 percent.”

Happy customer:  “Such a powerful and unique toy. This thing produces some amazingly strong vibrations. Probably a top 3 toy I have purchased and one of the most affordable. Quality seems to be really good. Battery life is amazing. Just buy it!”

Happy Rabbit Vibrator

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Buy from Lovehoney, $129.99

Why we like it:

  • Thrusting feature simulates the real thing
  • Velvety-soft, skin-safe silicone
  • Whisper-quiet vibrations

The rabbit vibrator is one of the most famous sex toys for women. But not all rabbits are created equal. Unlike most, the Happy Rabbit vibrator offers a thrusting function that simulates real sex. Add that with its whisper quiet vibrations, and you have the best rabbit vibrator in the adult toy aisle.

Happy customer: “As expected with Lovehoney, and Happy Rabbit in particular, this vibrator feels very good quality. The silicone has a soft, velvety feel and the buttons are easy to use. The thrusting element was what intrigued me about this vibrator, and although a little noisy, they definitely added a new element to the standard rabbit vibe! It’s a pretty substantial size and weight, and the thrusting makes it perfect if you’re looking for G-spot stimulation as well as clitoral. Overall, if you’re looking for a thrusting vibrator – Happy Rabbit will not disappoint.”

Dame Fin Vibrator For Fingers

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Dame

Buy from Dame, $85

Why we like it:

  • 3-speed vibration
  • Can be worn multiple ways
  • USB chargeable

This finger vibrator is small but packs a punch! The versatile design allows for pleasure with the tether or without, and the vibrator itself comes with both pointy and squishy sides, so you can mix things up to your liking. Available in navy or jade, this device is as cute as it is fun to use, and the three-speed vibration settings will send you right over the edge.

Happy customer: “I’m amazed by how comfortable and versatile the touch of the Fin is. No more messing around with positions of sex toys and awkward angles that detract from pleasure. The Fin does what I want, just better!”

Moxie By We-Vibe Mini Vibrator

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Good Vibrations

Buy from Good Vibrations, $129

Why we like it:

  • Remote controller
  • Waterproof with underwear clip
  • App-Controlled

Who said sex toys are only for for solo play? Although you can certainly use it on your own, Moxie’s wearable contoured mini vibrator is a top pick for couples, as it can be operated via a remote control or even an app on your phone, from up to 30 feet away. It conveniently clips to your underwear, so you can make sure it’s positioned for maximum pleasure. Or if you want to get creative, you can move it to other areas of your body — imagine the possibilities!

Happy customer: “I love the contoured shape of this cutie! It fits close to the body keeping contact with the fun parts without feeling like it’s in the way, especially if you’re sitting down while wearing it (for my anatomy at least). The magnets keep the toy in place really well, and work better in lingerie than the classic little underwear pocket underwear vibe. The app plus the ease of clipping it onto any style of underwear/body suits makes it a great item if you want to include someone in your play time that isn’t in the same room as you. It’s super rumbly – as you would expect from We-Vibe. Great product!”

Desire Luxury Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator

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Buy from Lovehoney, $89.99

Why we like it:

  • 8 modes of vibration, each with 12 custom speeds of intensity
  • 26-feet remote range
  • Slender shape for easy insertion

This egg vibrator is a fun one! With a remote control that spans 26 feet, you and your partner can get extra creative (and naughty) just about anywhere. Made of silky silicone, it’s whisper quiet, so you can experience its eight vibration modes whenever, wherever.

Happy customer: “I bought this product for my partner and let’s say it was fantastic. I loved that I could control it. [It has] so many different settings. We started slow then got to the highest setting and she was coming in less than five minutes. Good for solo play and together. Really nice size and texture. It’s a must-have in the bedroom.”

Womanizer Red Duo Rechargeable G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulator

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Buy from Lovehoney, $219.99

Why we like it:

  • Pleasure Air technology offers clitoral suction
  • Vibrating G-spot stimulation
  • 12 intensity levels; 10 vibration modes

The Pleasure Air technology on this G-spot vibrator offers a clitoral suction with 12 levels of intensity. The G-spot stimulator can be set to 10 different modes of vibration, so you can truly customize your experience for optimal pleasure.

Happy customer: “My husband bought me this as a birthday gift; initially I was really worried that I wouldn’t get on with it and for the price that was scary. It arrived in a lovely presentation box, the silicone was really soft and silky. We put it on charge as advised and waited. There are lots of settings to go through so I’d advise to try using them first before inserting because wow… They’re intense!!! Initially I couldn’t get above 1 on the clitoral suction part, it was just too much for me. But once I had the settings right it didn’t take long to orgasm, twice! This has (unsurprisingly) quickly turned into my favorite toy. It doesn’t make my clit too sensitive after use like other vibrators do so I can use it multiple times in a session. My husband also loves using it on me as a warm up! Highly recommend this for solo and partner play”

Maude Vibe

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Maude

Buy from Maude, $45

Why we like it:

  • 3 speed
  • USB-charged
  • 100% platinum-grade silicone

We’re loving this powerful little 3-speed Vibe personal massager by Maude. This waterproof device is soft to the touch, extremely easy to use, and totally discreet — it even comes in an unassuming natural canvas travel pouch, so you can take it with you anywhere. It charges with a USB and its battery lasts for up to 2.5 hours. It’s made from 100 percent premium FDA-grade silicone, and it’s free from phthalate and latex. 

Happy customer: “I have always been apprehensive about buying a vibrator, which is why the vibe’s low key appearance interested me so much. After trying it out I can’t imagine my life without it. I never ever write reviews but this product is magical and everyone needs a Vibe in their life!! Recommending the Vibe to all my friends.”

Lovehoney Wild Weekend Mega Couple’s Sex Toy Kit (11 Piece)

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Buy from Lovehoney, $89.99

Why we like it:

  • 11 pieces
  • Variety of sex toys and vibrators for men and women
  • Perfect for couples or solo play

Whether you’re a beginner in the world of adult toys and want to stock your secret drawer, or experienced and looking for some new adventures, this is the ultimate 11-piece sex toy kit for you. It comes with cock rings, vibrators, jiggle balls, anal beads, a rabbit, and masturbator for never-ending pleasure.

Happy customer: “This kit is fantastic! My best purchase from Lovehoney yet! Every toy is great, especially for the price. The rabbit in this kit is particularly good but everything in this is great. It’s a well thought through kit with equal enjoyment for both partners, looks nice, and each toy is well built. Gets the job done!”

We-Vibe Chorus App and Remote Control Couple’s Vibrator

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Buy from Lovehoney, $199.99

Why we like it:

  • 10 vibration settings (but you can unlock more with the app)
  • Charging doc allows for discrete, dust-free charging
  • Great for solo or couples

The We-Vibe Chorus can of course be used solo, but the real fun happens when you add a partner. The free We-Vibe app allows your partner to control the vibration from anywhere in the world, no matter how far apart you are. He or she can also squeeze the remote control to adjust the intensity of the vibration to match the grip. This smart vibrator may seem high-tech, but its super-helpful manual and website make quick start a breeze.

Happy customer: “The We-Vibe Chorus is an absolutely fantastic piece of sex tech! I enjoyed using this solo, and handing over complete control to my partner over the app while they were away. You or your partner can also pick different songs in ‘beat mode,’ which is a load of fun. Adding app-enabled toys has done wonders for our sex life … I highly recommend them for couples in long distance relationships, but really, they are a wonderful investment for everyone.”

Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

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Adam & Eve

Buy from Adam & Eve, $99.99

Why we like it:

  • 12 shaft vibration modes
  • 3 bunny stimulator vibration speeds
  • Curved tip teases your body’s deepest spots

Fans of steamy fiction, this one’s for you! Sex and the City first made the Rabbit-style vibrator popular more than 20 years ago, and this special-edition Fifty Shades of Grey Rabbit Vibrator is endorsed by the author of the Fifty Shades series, E.L. James, herself. It delivers powerful vibration from two different motors, and there are 12 modes of speed and pattern, so you can customize the experience to your needs.

Happy customer: “I had never hit the big O until I got this in the mail last month. It has so many different settings between the two different motors that I believe pretty much every woman could find what works for them with this awesome toy! I will definitely be buying this again if I ever have any problems with my current one in a few years. So far it works perfectly and holds charge long enough to play with multiple times over a week and a half span. Charges quickly and isn’t too loud, which was one of my main concerns as I live with other people. Highly recommend! This was my first ever toy, but I also did my research and invested a bit more money in myself than usual but it definitely paid off.”

Je Joue MiMi Vibrator

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Amazon

Buy from Amazon, $95

Why we like it:

  • 5 vibration settings and 7 pulsation patterns
  • Palm-sized and waterproof
  • Quiet motor

Do you love a luxurious soak in the tub? Take this soft little purple gadget with you next time! It’s smaller than a bar of soap and fully waterproof — yes, safe to submerge! — so you can spice up your next bath. Five vibration settings and seven pulsation patterns range from slow and sensuous, to fast and strong. Fun to use with a partner or alone, it runs for two hours on a single charge and is sleek, silky, and super sexy. 

Happy customer: BEST TOY EVER. My husband and I have a difficult time finding what works for me and this exceeded my expectations … The silicone is crazy soft, and the tip is squishy and just right for anyone. Cute little box, would be perfect as a gift to a friend. Comes charged a little too, who doesn’t want to play with a shiny new toy?

njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

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Buy from Lovehoney, $149.99

Why we like it:

  • Weighted for firm pressure
  • Temperature responsive and compatible with all lubricants
  • Lovehoney best seller!

Don’t be intimidated by this beauty. Cast in 316 grade stainless steel, this smooth, non-porous dildo is weighted to add pressure to all the right spots. It’s temperature responsive, too, so you can warm it up in hot water or ice it down in the freezer, depending on your preferred sensation.

Happy customer: “This toy is a legend for a reason. I bought it on a quest to achieve an elusive G-spot orgasm and it didn’t disappoint. It is an expensive toy but well worth the money. It feels and looks luxurious. The steel is super smooth and beautiful to look at and the weight feels powerful in the hand. I confess I do enjoy just holding it and running my fingers over it. I have some friends who have purchased fakes for a cheaper price but this toy is really worth paying extra for, in addition to peace of mind that it is fully body safe.”

Fifty Shades of Grey Inner Goddess Silver Pleasure Balls

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Buy from Lovehoney, $29.99

Why we like it:

  • Smooth, chrome-plated with a carbon steel core
  • Easy-to-wear and remove
  • Combined weight of 221g

Also known as Ben Wa balls, this kegel ball set is just like the one Anastasia Steel used in Fifty Shades of Grey (“I flush from the constant movement of the silver balls…”). To use, simply coat them in lubricant then slide them in. They’re weighted to strengthen your pelvic walls and increase the intensity of future orgasms, but they’ll also turn you on in a way that will make you feel like you’re at a dinner party with Christian Grey.

Happy customer: “They went right in without a problem. I suggest using lots of lube, especially your first time. I use them [while doing] things around the house, or go out with them [inside of] me. They feel very good inside, and I started to feel a sensation through my whole body. I started to feel moist and hot. I was alone and I used a clit sucker too, and my body started to shake and oh what a big O. I want to try them with my husband.”

Liberator Humphrey Toy Mount Sex Pillow

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Buy from Lovehoney, $159.99

Why we like it:

  • Easily mounts any type of sex toy
  • Washable microfiber cover
  • Cushion supports two bodies

If you love your sex toys but are looking for some hands-free play, this sex pillow will be your new best friend. Its pre-made toy holder is suitable for steadying toys of all shapes and sizes, even those without a flared base. The pillow’s foam core is firm and can hold up to two people comfortably, and the soft, removable cover is machine washable for easy clean-up.

Happy customer: “For my 40th birthday I treated myself to the Liberator Humphrey Toy Mount Sex Pillow… I have quite a few toys that I enjoy using on a regular basis, but sometimes it’s difficult to get the positioning right… He allows you to enjoy solo fun with your toys in a whole range of new positions. Yes, for a pillow he is expensive, but for the pleasure I have already had with him, he is worth every penny.”

Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo

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Buy from Lovehoney, $39.99

Why we like it:

  • Borosilicate glass can be cooled or heated for added temperature play
  • G-spot stimulation
  • Comes with velvet storage bag

This smooth glass dildo is beaded for deep internal stimulation. Not only is glass hypoallergenic and easy to clean, it can also be heated or cooled to change the sensation. The velvet storage bag makes this classy toy somehow even more high-end.

Happy customer: “I’ve always been wary of glass sex toys. To me, glass reminds me of sharpness, and that’s not something you want to worry about on your delicate areas. Eventually I decided to be brave, order this item and try it out. I’m so glad I did. The first time I used it I had one of the most intense orgasms I’ve ever experienced using a toy. It was so pleasurable I played with it several times more that week and regularly since then. It is well made, sturdy but smooth. It reacts well to temperature — I have both cooled and warmed it for different sensations. The length is perfect, the curve hits all the right areas, and the bumpiness heightens all feelings. Highly recommended toy that everyone should have in their collection.”

Sliquid Organics Natural Gel Lubricant

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Lovehoney

Buy from Lovehoney, $29.99

Why we like it:

  • Natural aloe-based lubricant
  • Contains organic hibiscus, sunflower seed, and green tea extracts
  • Compatible with all sex toys

Don’t forget the lube! Before trying out any of these toys, it’s important to make sure that vaginal dryness doesn’t get in the way of your fun. Sliquid Organics Natural Lubricant is an all-natural, long-lasting solution to this pesky problem, which is more apt to crop up during perimenopause. This multi-functional, aloe-based gel lube simulates your own natural lubrication, and won’t irritate delicate areas or damage your favorite toys. Plus, it contains organic hibiscus, green tea, and sunflower seed extracts to naturally restore your skin’s elasticity!

Happy customer: “It’s the best lube I’ve ever tried. Needs to be reapplied a bit more often than some other lubes, but I’d never swap it for a different brand. What I love about it is that it doesn’t irritate my skin, provides enough glide, and at the same time doesn’t have a chemical taste or smell! So can be used for all kinds of fun. The bottle is sturdy and luxurious — it looks like a massage oil bottle, so can be kept with other cosmetics.”

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