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9 Ways for Women to Combat Hair Loss Before Menopause Starts

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I met my friend Emily at an outdoor café in Madison, Wisconsin recently. It was a beautiful sunny day, 74 degrees, and after we sat down with our iced lattes, I was surprised that she didn’t take off her winter wool beanie. “What’s up?” I said, nodding toward her hat.

“Oh, just chilly,” she said, not at all convincingly. Soon the skin above her brows began to perspire.

“You sure you’re okay?”

She leaned in closer. “You’re writing about perimenopause, right?” I nodded. I couldn’t imagine what she was going to say. She had found some weird, counterintuitive cure for hot flashes that included the wearing of heavy woolen headgear? She had (God forbid) some terrible disease? “I think I’m going bald,” she whispered, “and I think it has to do with hormones.”

“Oh,” I said, relieved. “Is that all?”

“What do you mean is that all? I said I think I’m going bald!” she shouted. The two undergrads studying for finals at the nearby table glanced at us, and then, embarrassed, looked away.

“I mean, that’s normal. I thought you were sick. Take off your hat. Let me see.”

Perimenopause Hair Loss

Emily took off her hat. Her blond shoulder-length hair was thinning, but she was hardly bald. But then again, her hair was wet and stringy from sweat, which wasn’t doing anything for her. “I think I may have a diagnosis.”

“I knew it!”

“Remember how when you were pregnant, and your hair came in all thick and glossy? That’s because you had all kinds of estrogen. This is the opposite of that. You’re losing estrogen, and so you’re losing a little hair.”

“What can I do?”

“I said I had a diagnosis. Not a cure.”

Emily put her wool beanie back on. “Some doctor you are.”

I explained to Emily that The Iowa Writers’ Workshop wasn’t really in the business of handing out medical degrees, but that since my hair was also thinning, and since I was curious, and since I supposed we weren’t the only two women on the planet who wanted some answers, I’d do some research. This is what I came up with for how to handle hair loss during perimenopause.

1. First, rule out medical issues for thinning hair.

Peri/menopause is a natural state of aging. But hair loss can be a symptom of a serious problem. The first thing you should do if you’re experience hair loss is see your doctor, to make sure you don’t have a health issue (such as anemia, lupus, hypothyroidism, etc).

Once you and your doctor have determined that your hair loss is caused by peri/menopause, then, again, with your doctor’s approval, you might find the following treatments beneficial…



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2. Replace hormones.

If we are experiencing hair loss or thinning hair because our female hormones are in decline, then it only makes sense that replacing estrogen and progesterone through pills and creams might help. Another treatment option might be low-androgen index birth control pills. (High-androgen birth control pills can create more hair loss. Great! Just what we need — more hair loss!)

3. Try Minoxidil.

Minoxidil — the generic name for the topical over-the-counter treatment many people know as Rogaine — has been shown to provide some regrowth of hair or prevent further hair loss. Rogaine now comes in a 5 percent foam for women, which is to be applied once a day, and must be used indefinitely (read: for the rest of your earthly life); if you stop using it, hair loss will recur. Some studies have shown that about 20 percent of women experience moderate regrowth of hair and about 40 percent experience some regrowth of hair after four months of use; results are best for women who start the treatment as soon as they start to experience hair loss. (So, you know, go back in time — and while you’re at it, ditch that boyfriend a lot sooner, and wear sunscreen daily... you know the rest.)

4. Be dirty, or style less.

Experts seem to agree that nobody needs to wash her hair every day. It’s not that washing our hair makes it fall out (though it may appear that way— we lose an average of 80 strands of hair a day, and it may seem that we lose all 80 of those strands in the shower when we’re shampooing in the morning), but experts say that what we do to our hair afterwards can damage it. For example, using blow dryers and curling irons on high heat settings, and extra-hold hair spray can all create hair loss.

So the trick is to let our hair dry naturally, or wash and style it less often.

And when you do wash your hair, you might try using a shampoo meant for hair growth. Art Naturals Argan Oil Shampoo, for example, contains DHT blockers that are meant to prevent damage and further hair loss. It costs about $26 and has nearly 1,700 reviews with a 4.0 average on Amazon, and most users reported noticeable hair growth after only a couple of weeks.

5. Massage away your troubles… and hair loss.

Sometimes I want to call one of the fancy hair salons in Madison and say, “I want a cut and color but skip the cut and color.” The receptionist will say, “You mean you want a shampoo with a head massage?” And I’ll say, “Yes, exactly!”

Turns out I may be on to something. Research shows that if scalp massages are done with essential oils, including lavender, cedarwood, thyme, and rosemary (the latter being especially effective), they do indeed stimulate hair growth. Of course, the nice thing is, we don’t need to embarrass ourselves by making crazy requests to fancy hair salons (although, if the salon is fancy enough, of course, no request will be seen as crazy); we can give scalp massages to ourselves. And if your sleeping partner doesn’t care, or if you sleep by yourself, then for an additional benefit, you can do what I sometimes do, which is rub rosemary oil with coconut oil into my scalp before bed, and then sleep with it in my hair/head all night.

The trick is to make sure you wash it out again before you go to work in the morning. You want thick hair, after all — not unemployment benefits.



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6. Hair loss? Change your style.

There are certain styles and cuts that are especially flattering for women with thinning hair.

Cuts: Long hair can weigh down fine hair. Stylists recommend that women with thinning hair get frequent trims, and that they add layers for volume. One especially flattering cut to try is a choppy bob; another is a pixie. Uneven bangs can create depth and texture.

Color: Lowlights and highlights can add depth and dimension, which can make hair look more full. Lighter hair can make a visible part and scalp look less pronounced.

Styles: If you always part your hair on the right, try parting it on the left for added volume. A jagged part can hide a visible scalp, and can also make the top layers stick up, as if you’ve teased your hair. Blow drying creates volume as well. Loose waves, created with a diffuser and sea salt spray, can make hair appear thick and bouncy. So can curling your hair. A half-pony (think “Sleeping Beauty”) with the bottom half curled or left straight, and the top pulled up high, adds fullness and height. African-American women with thinning hair may want to try side bangs, twist outs, and updos with cascading hair and bangs, using the hair you have to cover the thinning spots.

7. Consider a shot — maybe.

The data is inconclusive as to whether or not cortisone shots actually work at re-growing hair, but I do know one woman who gets them frequently and says they have really helped her. Cortisone shots are given at the scalp, and the Mayo Clinic suggests they should not be given more often than every six weeks. While I know of some women who have had luck with acupuncture for hair loss, the British Acupuncture Society states that there is no evidence that acupuncture can treat hair loss as a specific symptom; however, it might help with the underlying problem. (For example, acupuncture can help treat lupus, which can cause hair loss.)

8. Pop a pill.

When one researches hair loss, or asks perimenopausal or menopausal women how they treat their thinning hair, a couple of vitamins and supplements come up again and again: Biotin and Viviscal. Biotin is a B-vitamin that’s part of the B family. Deficiencies are rare, but many women take supplements because it seems to improve the condition of their hair and nails. And by “seems to improve,” I mean that if you go on Amazon.com and look up “Biotin” or “vitamins for hair, skin, and nails,” you will find a plethora of products with five-star reviews and phrases such as “life-changing” and “bald no more” and “Works!!!”

Viviscal has Biotin in it — and calcium. And vitamin C. It also contains shark cartilage, oyster extract, and a “marine complex” — which is apparently the secret elixir that gives the ingredient its power. The U.S. National Library of Medicine published an article with a double-blind placebo controlled study that showed the efficacy of this product; “significantly more” women who took Viviscal than the placebo noticed hair growth after 90 days, and even more after 180 days. Now it’s true that the funding for the study was provided by the makers of Viviscal, but double-blind is double-blind. Furthermore, in an entirely separate article, Beauty Editor writer Katrina Persad tried Viviscal for 6 months and documented her results in a quite convincing photo essay and article that showed fairly dramatic results — and Viviscal (as far as I know) did not pay her for her trouble. (Though she does seem to have gotten the product for free, which is quite a perk; the tablets cost about $40 a month.)

9. Or you can be like Emily.

I called my friend Emily when I had finished all of my research, excited about all of the things we could do for our thinning hair. I went down my list, ticking everything off, explaining, elucidating, answering questions before she could even ask them. When I was finished, I let out a deep breath, and said, “Well, I guess that’s it.”

There was a long pause.

“Hello?” I said. “Em? Are you there?”

“Yes, I’m here, but the question is, are you all there?”

“What are you talking about?”

“That sounds totally exhausting and really expensive. Forty dollars for one month of shark pills? And what about those poor sharks? Blow-dry my hair to create volume — but don’t blow dry my hair ‘cause I’ll damage it? Use Rogaine every day for the rest of my life — what if I live to be 100? Do you how much that’s gonna cost me? Go on the pill? I feel like I just went off the pill! This is like a part-time job! Only I’m gonna need a part-time job to pay for it all! Forget it! You know what I’m doing? I’m getting a summer hat! I saw a really cute one when I was at the mall, but it was like $50, and I thought, that’s crazy, I’m not spending fifty bucks on a stupid straw hat! Now that seems like a total bargain to me! I’m just going to wear hats all the time! Wool hats in winter, straw hats in summer. It’ll be an investment I’ll make every couple years. Done! Thank you, Kelly, you have made me realize I don’t need to solve this problem, I just need to keep covering it up.”

“Umm, you’re welcome?”

But Emily had already hung up, apparently impatient to get on her with her life and get to the mall. I didn’t even know Emily frequented malls.

But if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that perimenopause changes us all.

This essay was written by Kelly Dwyer, a published novelist, playwright, and freelance writer.

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