If you consider yourself a good friend, supportive partner, and all-round caring person, chances are, your child will, too.
We already know which facial features your kids inherited from you, but a new study has found that the one personality trait you’re most likely to pass on is, in fact, kindness.
Researchers from the Royal Holloway, University of London and other establishments across Europe set out to discover just which characteristics were passed on from parents to children.
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To reach their conclusion, the teams studied over 400 families as they sorted images of adults and children with accompanying statements about their values into how much the opposite group resonated with each. They found that children whose parents wanted for them to be helpful, supporting, and caring were more similar in value profile to their moms and dads than those whose parents endorsed striving for power and achievement.
"We often take for granted 'like father, like son,' and this is especially interesting when it comes to the inheritance of destructive values such as power-seeking and selfishness,” co-author Professor Anat Bardi of Royal Holloway said. “We've now demonstrated that parents who foster more altruistic values, such as helping and caring, more strongly pass on all their values down the family line."
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And it wasn’t just kindness these kids took away from their mothers and fathers. Parents who focused on prosocial values were also found to be more sensitive to their child’s needs, which formed a stronger bond in the long run and promoted behavioral traits such as curiosity and tradition.
"This research really shows that where parents nurture positive, supportive, and altruistic values, their children will also take these characteristics to heart. Where being 'the best' is among the dominant interests of the parents, children tend not to express such connection to their parents' values,” said Bardi.
"While there are always other influences on how we develop the values that make us who we are, there is no doubt that our parents have a huge role to play. How we then decide to take their values through our lives is, of course, up to us as individuals."
Wow, what a great characteristic to pass on.
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